Dating is not a competition, I know. But most of my single friends are dating and it’s hard keeping track of all their different dates and different men. Every time there’s a new guy in the picture I have to remember to ask them how their date went, what happened since the last date and when the next date will be. It’s a lot to remember especially when you multiply that by different friends who have multiple dates.
Think about it: If your friend meets a new guy she’ll tell you all about him including his background, anything about his friends that she’s met and of course the many details about her dates with him. Over time, the dates will start to add up and she may reference something from their earlier dates that you’re expected to remember. Not to mention if she’s dating multiple men at the same time, the things you have to remember grow exponentially.
Not only do you have to hear all about her dates, you must remember to ask about them. Women love discussing their dates with their friends but we love it even more when our friends ask about our dates first. Just like any exciting occasion, it says a lot about your friendship when your friends think to ask you about something before you can even start to tell them about it. Plus these are good details to keep in mind so that if there is a wedding later down the line, you’ll have some great memories to share at their wedding reception (I’m always thinking ahead).
What about when your friends get into a fight with their significant other? I think part of a friend’s job is to keep score whenever there’s an argument. Why? Well, in the event my friend is in the wrong then I need to share with her why I think she is the one that needs to apologize. When there is an argument, I need to remind her of her boyfriend’s good qualities and why they fell in love in the first place. So you see, it really is important to keep track of your friend’s dates, after all.
All in all, it’s a great when your friends remember the special moments in your life. It’s even better when you don’t have to remind them.