I love a good conversation! A really good conversation can go a long way with me, but unfortunately, there aren’t a lot of men who can really hold my attention over the phone (in person is a completely different story). A lot of conversations I have are rote so it’s difficult to get excited about talking to someone over the phone when I know that it will probably be a boring conversation. On the rare occasion that someone can actually hold my attention, I relish in the opportunity to talk to them.
But, there are some men that are not worth talking to, not because they’re bad, but because they’re just “uncallable” –
A guy who is boring – there is nothing worse than trying to hold a phone conversation with someone who is B-O-R-I-N-G. Someone who doesn’t have an opinion about anything, doesn’t ask me questions back, or doesn’t have a life outside of work so he has nothing to contribute to the conversation.
He only talks about himself – arrogance is not an attractive quality on a man. What’s the point of calling someone if you don’t want to talk with them? Even people with a very interesting life realize the importance of sharing & that they are not the only ones with something to say!
He talks too dang much! – It’s good that you like to talk but know your limit! Over-talking can mean one of three things: 1) you share too much of your business which means eventually you could be sharing too much of my business or 2) you don’t have enough friends so I’m the only person you have to talk to, or 3) when you talk too much at some point, I’ll start to lose interest in the conversation. We wouldn’t that, now would we?!
If you fall into one of these categories, then you are automatically “uncallable” to me. I’m not saying I won’t pick up the phone when you call but don’t hold your breath waiting for me to call you.