Last night I went out and was minding my own business when this young man approached me. He introduced himself and before he really started talking to me I told him that I wanted to see his ID. He just looked too young to be talking to me. He laughed and told me that he was 30. Although he was cute, 30 years old is too young for me. It’s always refreshing to meet a cute, young, tall, well dressed gentleman but I just can’t see myself with a younger man. What could we possible have in common?
Younger men are usually not established and far from ready to settle down. We already know that men mature slower than women so a younger man would have a lot of catching up to do if he wanted to be with me. They are still figuring themselves out and certainly not in a position to figure anyone else out.
A younger man wouldn’t know about any of the singing groups from the 90’s like Kris Kross, MC Lyte, Boyz II Men, C&C Music Factory, or Will Smith (before he was a full time actor). Not to mention, young guys are just broke. Yeah, I said it. Most men don’t hit their economic stride until they’re closer to 40, so what could a young buck possibly have to offer me? Most older women tell me that younger men are better sexually and they definitely have better bodies than men my age but I need more than that from a man. I value experience over youth.
Plus younger guys are still facing peer pressure from their single friends. When all their friends are hanging out & enjoying the bachelor life, it’s harder to remain faithful and be totally committed to our relationship.
I will admit that younger guys have more energy & can be lots of fun, but I’ve still got plenty of energy myself so I’m not at a point where I need to gleam that from someone else. At the end of the day younger men are cool to hang out with but definitely not relationship material for me. Just ask Courtney Cox & David Arquette, Eva Longoria & Tony Parker or Demi Moore & Ashton Kutcher.
Bring me an older man!