Do Men Sign Prenups? Rich Woman, Poor Man – What Happens When The Woman Has All The Money?

It seems like almost every celebrity couple signs prenuptial agreements before getting married. But those are usually situations where the bulk of the money is coming from the man or both parties have individual wealth (think Michael Douglas & Catherine Zeta Jones or Sarah Jessica Parker & Matthew Broderick). But I wonder what happens when the woman is the breadwinner in the relationship. Does she make the man sign a prenup before marrying him?

I started to think about all of the female celebrities that have married “regular” men (or have gotten close to marriage). Here’s the list of some of the couples that came to mind and their net worth, according to

  • Michelle Obama & President Barack Obama – As a VP of Community Affairs, Mrs. Obama was pulling in close to $300,000 / The then-Senator about $160,000 per year
  • Teresa Heinz & John Kerry – Our Secretary of State only makes about $187K, and he’s married to an heiress of Heinz ketchup thought to be worth close to 1 billion dollars
  • Oprah Winfrey & Stedman Graham – Okay, Oprah makes like a gazillion dollars a year
  • Reality TV star Bethenny Frankel & Jason Hoppy – Last year Bethenny made 8 figures; I’m guessing Jason made about 6
  • Jennifer Lopez & Mark Anthony – Jlo is worth about $250 million, whereas her soon to be ex-husband is “only” worth about $40 million (largely due in part to being married to her)
  • Songstress Mariah Carey & Nick Cannon – Mariah’s net worth over $500 million, compared to a “paltry” $15 million for Nick


Surely, some men are willing to sign a prenup to be with the woman they love. They recognize that bringing less money into the marriage doesn’t make them any less of a man, and that money isn’t everything. But don’t men hold all the cards? For example, on the television show Real Housewives of Atlanta, Grammy award winning singer/songwriter Kandi Burruss has stated repeatedly that she believes in prenups. However, this was before she got engaged. Now if Kandi’s fiancé (Todd) doesn’t want to sign a prenup, then she may lose him altogether. There are plenty of women who would love to be with Todd and wouldn’t make him sign a prenup (grant it, most of these women aren’t millionaires but still, you get my point).

So if you are a rich woman, do you take the risk of losing a good man by making him sign a prenuptial agreement just so you can save some money? Or, do you follow your heart and marry the man of your dreams knowing that having money can’t replace a having a husband?


7 thoughts on “Do Men Sign Prenups? Rich Woman, Poor Man – What Happens When The Woman Has All The Money?

  1. The only people who dont want to sign a prenup are largely the ones with no assets or with huge debts. ..the ones who have a win win…

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  3. I don’t currently have anything, but if I got married tomorrow (to whatever Russian mail-order bride will have me), I would still expect her to sign a prenup. If she had money and asked me to do the same, I would have no problems with it. I can trust you, and love you, and want to be with you for the rest of my life while still understanding that circumstances don’t always break our way and we don’t always get what we want. Hope for the best, work for the best…but plan for the worst.

    1. Does this mean a small part of you won’t feel like she doesn’t trust you going into the marriage? You said “I can trust you…” which to me means a prenup shouldn’t be necessary. I get that people want to leave the marriage with what they came with, but I just feel like a prenup is a plan to fail – an exit strategy, if you will.

      And what happens if you don’t agree to her terms? Ya’ll just don’t get married? That just sounds so wrong – miss out on the love of your life because of some money. Such a shame!

  4. I personally wouldn’t think a second about signing up such document, as long as it’s on fair terms (what’s hers is hers what’s mine is mine). Accuallly such a document is what would make me go into marriage which i’m very wary of otherwise. It kills any suspicions i’m in it for money, likewise the other way, and hell yeah i want to give and receive WHEN I WANT TO GIVE and when the other side WANTS TO GIVE ME, and not cause it’s some duty.

    1. Yeah, i personally would never sign a prenup. Whether I’m the rich one or he is. I think it’s setting yourself up “just in case” and when I get married it will be for life.

      Thanks for reading!

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